California Swingers Resorts
Sea Mountain Inn Resort
66540 Sand Market
Desert Hot Springs, CA 92240
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The unwritten rules of engagement for Swingers include listening to not only your partner but to any playmates that may be involved. Discussions are open forums; signals between partners that are code in regard to awkwardness or the “I’m done, are you done?” scenario need to be established up front.
If a partner starts into an encounter which gets out of hand, discuss how you’ll handle the scenario before you’re faced with it.
Sometimes in the heat of the moment, people become lost and transport themselves into the fantasy world in their head – which either may have just been created or they failed to disclose up front, and that fantasy may not be one you want to participate in.
Remember the discussion period is not the time to hide behind a “wall of shame”…there isn’t anything shameful about honesty.
Swingers resorts offer an alternative to clubbing and allows people to meet and get to know one another at a more comfortable pace.