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Unbelievably, New York does not have any swinger friendly resorts but does offer many outlets for the Lifestyle Community.
The Swinging lifestyle is a lifestyle enjoyed throughout the state of New York. Most are private clubs which organize themselves online and then set up events and excursions for like-minded couples to meet and play with.
You aren’t going to ONLY find 20 something’s or “old” people stuck in a hippy or drug inspired “free-love” time warp in most clubs but you will find one commonality, the willingness to be open about their sexuality. Openness needs to be expressed by BOTH parties in a relationship and accepted by both or Swinging won’t work. It’s extremely important to discuss what is and is not acceptable and the reasons why before you are both in a situation where one person may feel threatened or slighted.
You can’t change the rules in the heat of the moment and conveniently “forgetting” the rules is not acceptable.