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Trying to find a swingers resort in Montana is probably impossible. However, there are several clothing optional swinger friendly resorts right here in the USA.
Roof Top Inn located in Florida, Sea Mountain Resort located in California and Caliente Resorts just Outside of Tampa, FL.
In Minnesota, courtesy goes a long way, especially in a swingers environment, so if you approach a couple and get rejected, don’t take it personally, there is always someone else that may find you intriguing.
Remember, no means no, so respect the decision. In some cases, a male or males may be solicited to perform an aggressive “kidnap, or torture fantasy”, where aggressive behavior is warranted and as long as the ground rules are established and everyone is okay with the amount of pain involved and the bruises that may result from it, there shouldn't’t be a problem.
If someone begins to get out of hand the female should always have a signal to alert her partner, who may be there as an observer or as a participant but is the trusted source to keep things under “control” and calm things down or stop them altogether.